The moment you realise it is not “a big adventure” anymore can arrive fast: a new job title, a live threat, and soldiers looking at you for decisions you did not expect to be making. I sit down with Owain Mulligan, a reservist officer whose winding path through a gap year commission, the OTC, and the Army Reserve turns into operational tours in Iraq and Afghanistan and a career shaped by responsibility.

We unpack what it is actually like to mobilise as a reservist, including the strange incentives around volunteering, the intensity of pre-deployment training, and the brutal jump from training theory to troop command. Owain talks candidly about Basra on Operation Telic, the shock of a Lynx shootdown, IDF, and the hard-to-explain anger that can surface when you face mortality for the first time. We also dig into leadership where it really counts: NCO trust, competence under pressure, and how good seniors respond when a young officer makes an error on a strike op.

From there, the story moves into specialist capability and the Defence School of Languages, including 15 months of Dari and Pashto and how language skills can shape an Afghanistan deployment. We finish with Owain's book The Accidental Soldier, why the ending turns reflective, and why he sends his royalties to War Child to support children affected by conflict.

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