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No Safe Place

Murdered by Our Father

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'My life will always be in danger. My beautiful sister Banaz Mahmod was murdered in an ‘honour killing’ ordered by our father and uncle. If those evil men find me, they will kill me too.'

Bekhal Mahmod was one of six siblings from a Sunni Muslim family in Iraqi Kurdistan who sought a new life as asylum seekers and arrived in London in 1998.

When Bekhal's father tried to force her into an arranged marriage at 15, she ran away. This caused her father to ‘lose respect’ within the Kurdish community and Bekhal became the target of an honour killing and her younger sisters Banaz and Payzee were quickly married off to restore the family's reputation.

When Banaz left her husband, claiming he'd beaten and raped her, Mahmod decided this 'shame' to the family meant Banaz must die. Within weeks, she had vanished.

Her body was finally discovered, crammed into a suitcase and buried in a garden in Birmingham. Banaz, age 20, had been raped and killed in a sickening plot orchestrated by her father and uncle.

Still fearing for her own life, Bekhal bravely faced her father and uncle in court—making her the first female in British legal history to give evidence against family members in an honour killing trial—and won justice for her beloved sister Banaz.

Bekhal now has a new identity after entering the police witness protection programme. She lives in terror of her father’s release from jail.

This is her story.

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A gripping and deeply emotional account of honour-based violence told through the eyes of Banaz Mahmod’s sister, Bekhal. Her bravery in speaking out, despite lifelong danger, is both heartbreaking and inspiring. The book is well-paced, raw, and essential—especially for those interested in true crime and human rights.

An essential listen but heartbreaking

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What a truely amazing story written by an equally amazing woman!
Bekal has been through so much and has brought it all back again in this book. To have survived the atrocities she suffered at the hands of people who should have been caring for her and keeping her safe, and then to experience her whole horrendous life again whilst retelling it is absolutely remarkable.
This book describes in graphic detail what it was like to grow up within the confines of an Iraqi Kurdish family. It details all the customs, traditions and beliefs that are practised within her culture and Bekal's struggles to come to terms with realising how abusive those practises are when she moves to the UK.
My sincere thanks to Bekal for highlighting her and other girls plight and their fight to change it.

What an amazing story

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Bekhal’s ability to weave a narrative allows you to see what she has experienced in her mind. This case is very close to my heart, and there were many times when I cried, screamed, and felt immeasurable rage at what Bekhal, Banaz, and her other sister experienced. Dr Siddique’s contribution, especially her insight into how so-called honour-based violence is rooted in misogyny and the issues with British multiculturalism, is spot on. The narrator was amazing! It felt like Bekhal was reading it - I can imagine her sounding like that. 10/10

Brilliantly written and horrifically tragic - A must read for those interested in VAWG

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The book goes from Iraq to the U.K.
Sadly, the family didn't leave their medieval beliefs behind when leaving Iraq. Sad and horrifying story of a very brave young woman, and her fight to get justice for her sister.

Multiculturalism?

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The first sound or letter is missing from the beginning of some paragraph or chapters - not sure if this was caused by faulty download ?

Harrowing in parts

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