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#145 Why So Many Successful Men Feel Empty

#145 Why So Many Successful Men Feel Empty

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 What if success isn’t something you achieve… but something you become?In this powerful episode of the Different Hats Podcast, I sit down with Volker Ballueder, coach, therapist, author, and host of Stories of Success, for a deep conversation about what success really means in today’s world.After interviewing high performers and building a successful corporate career, Volker realised that money, status, and external validation were never the full answer. Like many people, he discovered that reaching society’s version of success can still leave you feeling empty.Together, we explore the difference between success and fulfilment, why so many men silently struggle under pressure, and how emotional intelligence may be one of the most important skills we never get taught.We also discuss comparison culture, social media, midlife reflection, mindfulness, education, parenting, and the importance of helping young people define success for themselves, not through grades, job titles, or wealth, but through values, purpose, connection, and inner peace.This episode is for anyone questioning the path they’re on… feeling the pressure to keep achieving… or searching for a more meaningful definition of success.Volker shares honest reflections on chasing money earlier in life, how redundancy pushed him toward coaching and therapy, and why helping others now feels more rewarding than any corporate milestone ever did.We also talk openly about men’s mental health, suicide prevention, vulnerability, and why asking one simple question, You Alright Mate?, can change lives.A thoughtful, honest, and timely conversation about identity, fulfilment, masculinity, and what it means to live a life true to yourself.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 Introduction 02:10 You Alright Mate?03:10 How Volker Defines Success04:45 Chasing Money vs Finding Fulfilment07:45 Lifelong Learning & Education10:40 School Systems & Different Types of Intelligence15:30 Emotional Intelligence in Schools24:00 Creativity, Curiosity & Child-Led Learning28:40 Comparison Culture & Social Media31:55 Living True to Yourself38:50 What High Achievers Taught Volker About Success45:10 Why Purpose Matters More Than Money55:30 Being Enough As You Are59:55 Midlife Crisis or Midlife Awakening?1:03:10 Why Men Don’t Talk1:08:20 Vulnerability Is Strength1:17:40 Preventing Crisis Before It Happens1:22:40 Mindfulness & Self-Awareness1:31:15 Habits of Successful People1:45:15 What To Do If You’re Struggling1:54:55 Advice to Younger Volker1:55:34 What Does A Life Well Lived Look Like?🎧 LISTEN TO MORE DIFFERENT HATS EPISODES:👉 https://www.different-hats.co.uk/podcast🔗 Connect with Volker BalluederLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ballueder/Website: https://obnat.us/https://volkerballueder.com/💡 If this episode resonated with you, please like, share, and comment below. Your support helps us spread this important message and change the narrative around success and mental health.SPONSORED BY:Rivervale – https://www.rivervale.co.ukBrown Bear Studios – https://www.brownbearstudio.co.ukCarpenter Box – https://www.carpenterbox.com🎬 PRODUCED BY:H2 Productions – https://h2productions.co.uk/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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