Episodes

  • Listening to Your Inner Compass: Intuition, the Rational Mind, and the Protector with Louise Hansell | Deep Work Out Loud
    May 12 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver welcomes leadership coach Louise Hansell to discuss listening to and trusting your inner voice or "internal compass." Louise shares how she moved from corporate HR and transformation work into coaching, and explains that intuition is often subtle, felt through the body, and can be drowned out by societal, family, and logical "shoulds." They explore distinguishing intuition from the rational mind and a protective ego voice that reacts with fear and urgency, noting Louise's view that intuition appears in the first few seconds before other voices take over. Louise suggests building discernment through mindfulness, silence, and low-stakes experiments, using full-body cues like expansion, contraction, relief, tension, or persistence. They also address people-pleasing, clear no's, and tolerating uncertainty while doors gradually open. Louise closes with an Einstein quote about honoring intuition alongside reason.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    00:40 Meet Louise Hansel

    02:18 Louise Coaching Origin

    04:01 Theme Inner Compass

    04:44 Hearing Versus Trusting

    08:35 Body Based Yes No

    09:29 Julie Pivot Story

    13:32 Louise Three Voices

    16:45 Naming Mind Protector

    19:03 Ego and Body Listening

    19:40 Mindfulness vs Thoughts

    20:29 Silence and Inner Voice

    23:02 Clean No Boundaries

    25:15 Waiting for Doors

    27:20 Trusting the Compass

    28:48 Seattle Moving Example

    31:26 First Three Seconds

    32:42 Low Stakes Practice

    34:41 Einstein Quote Wrap

    35:30 Where to Find Louise

    35:46 Final Invitation

    Louisehansell.com

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    36 mins
  • I Am Who I Am, Not What I Do: Dion Elliott Jensen on Identity, Ego, and Love-Based Leadership
    May 5 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver welcomes Dion Elliott Jensen, author of "Conscious Footsteps," who describes becoming an "accidental author" by using writing and long walks to process intense life changes and consolidate his journals into a book structured as standalone "walks." They focus on Dion's central theme, "I am who I am, not what I do," shaped by being abruptly fired from a CEO role and realizing he had outsourced his worth to his job. Dion explores how "what do you do?" creates instant masks, bias, and power dynamics that block real human connection, and suggests asking disarming, deeper questions about who someone is. He reflects on hardship-driven ego death, and how he now leads with less outcome attachment, wider "guardrails," and greater softness, trust, and authenticity.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    00:39 Meet Dion Jensen

    01:37 Why He Wrote

    03:41 Core Theme Identity

    06:05 Masks and Job Titles

    12:28 Better Questions to Ask

    15:46 Tell Me About You

    18:50 From Ego to Love

    20:55 I Am Poem Exercise

    23:56 Leadership After Shift

    26:05 Parting Advice and Links

    27:13 Closing Invitation

    Instagram: @dionelliottjensen

    Web: www.consciousfootsteps.com

    Amazon: https://www.amazon.com.au/stores/Dion-Elliott-Jensen/author/B0G3WJP22G?ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

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    28 mins
  • Time Billionaires: Reclaiming 90-Second Gaps for Happiness, Focus, and Agency with Rebecca Shaddix
    Apr 28 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver interviews business leader and Time Billionaires podcast host Rebecca Shaddix on reclaiming 90-second to 15-minute gaps between meetings to reduce frantic context shifting and improve happiness, energy, and fulfillment. Shaddix describes how a COVID-era habit of replacing scrolling with tiny actions—like brief audiobook listening, pushups, breathing, or stepping outside—compounded into hundreds of books a year and a research-backed framework of six micro-moment categories (reflection/mindset, connection, movement, nature/sensory awareness, play/creativity, and gratitude/mindfulness). She emphasizes planning ahead via a weekly Friday reflection ("what went well, what didn't, what do I want more of") and focusing on a realistic "floor" rather than aspirational "ceiling" goals. They also discuss labeling meetings with a single intuitive word to clarify next steps and reduce lingering anxiety, and the broader theme of agency over time as a guardrail against resentment and burnout.

    00:00 Welcome and Format

    00:36 Meet Rebecca Shaddix

    01:50 Time Billionaires Origin

    03:35 Why Micro Gaps Matter

    08:38 Nature Minutes Add Up

    09:10 Plan Your Micro Moments

    09:38 Six Micro Moment Categories

    10:24 Tiny Creativity Reset

    13:31 Balance Without Perfection

    15:21 Micro Workouts Not Gyms

    16:13 ADHD and Starting Small

    18:35 Stop Self Blame

    19:14 Floor Not Ceiling

    20:13 Mindful Micro Moments

    23:11 Gratitude Deep Dives

    24:37 Mindfulness Anywhere

    25:31 One Word Debriefs

    31:06 Reclaim Time Agency

    34:10 Closing And Invitation

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    35 mins
  • Leading with Humanity in a Polarized, Fast-Changing World with Dr. Kim Stepanski
    Apr 21 2026

    Julie Harris Oliver welcomes Dr. Kim Stepanski, an executive coach and organizational psychologist, to explore what leadership feels like right now amid rapid change, AI disruption, geopolitical volatility, and polarization. They discuss how leaders face loneliness, pressure to have answers, and the challenge of guiding teams whose perspectives are shaped by narrowing information "echo chambers." Kim emphasizes building capacity to see beyond one's own lens, getting comfortable with not knowing, and using reflection, connection, and community to stay grounded and humane. Julie shares practices such as acknowledging heaviness, simple meeting check-ins (e.g., green/yellow/red), and creating space for people to share what they're carrying without leaders needing to fix it. Kim describes using small experiments, grounding tools, and peer groups—especially for senior women—to build vulnerability, perspective-taking, and support, and closes with ways to connect with her online.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    00:33 Meet Kim Stepanski

    02:17 Why Kim Chose Coaching

    04:16 Leading Right Now

    06:56 Filters and Echo Chambers

    09:30 Simple Human Check Ins

    12:26 Coaching Tools and Experiments

    15:07 Practicing the Uncomfortable

    15:53 Building Leader Community

    20:37 Systems and Human Centered Work

    26:42 Staying Grounded and Closing

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    28 mins
  • Identity in Transition with Ben Basilan | Deep Work Out Loud
    Apr 14 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver welcomes transition and emerging leaders coach Ben Basilan, who shares how layoffs in his industry and his background in counseling and UX research led him to coaching. They explore identity as a root issue in major transitions such as becoming a manager or small business owner, experiencing layoffs, divorce, aging, and retirement, focusing on what feels fixed versus changeable and how "inner saboteurs" formed in childhood can stop serving us. Ben describes growing up as a Filipino immigrant kid navigating cultural and emotional silence, moving states, and realizing he was gay, then later finding greater openness through grad school and counseling training. They discuss authenticity at work as a spectrum tied to psychological safety and how integrating Ben's identities as coach and researcher improved his motivation and communication. They also address identity clashes with loved ones amid polarized beliefs and the role of coaching in healing.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    00:31 Meet Ben Basilan

    01:19 Why Ben Chose Coaching

    02:10 Identity as a Theme

    02:53 Transitions Trigger Identity

    06:01 What Can Change

    07:15 Roots of Rationality

    09:33 Move South and Isolation

    12:48 Coming Out and Becoming Whole

    14:51 Authenticity at Work

    18:40 Merging Work Identities

    23:26 Life Stages and Reinvention

    28:43 When Identities Clash

    32:53 Coaching as Healing Purpose

    33:54 Where to Find Ben

    34:26 Closing Invitation

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    35 mins
  • Living Your Authentic Self with Heather Pomerantz | Deep Work Out Loud
    Apr 7 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver welcomes executive coach and former CFO Heather Pomerantz to discuss living your authentic self through clarifying core values and purpose. Heather shares how her early love of listening and connection, a long achievement-driven finance career, and a Unilever purpose program led her to coaching when she realized she was in physical pain from misalignment. They outline steps: identify core values from a word list, narrow them, define what each means personally, translate them into "I am" statements, assess alignment, and decide what must shift to integrate joy now rather than waiting for "someday." They explore freedom as a sample value, signs of misalignment like anxiety and Sunday dread, authenticity in interviewing, and how leaders can improve results and retention by understanding employees' values and reshaping responsibilities.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    00:36 Meet Heather Pomerantz

    02:23 Heather's Coaching Origin

    03:32 Achievement to Purpose

    06:20 CFO Misalignment Wakeup

    08:17 Living Authentic Self

    08:53 Find Your Core Values

    11:36 Define Values and Freedom

    13:47 Check Alignment and Shift

    15:23 Why Wait Integrate

    19:29 Lead Through Values

    22:04 Strengths Versus Values

    28:15 Values in Career Transitions

    30:56 Somatic Signs of Alignment

    34:19 Closing Takeaways and Links

    Dr. Matt Kodsi's book: A Story Tale - ABC's of the stories we tell ourselves

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    38 mins
  • Disruption as Alignment: Coaching, Grief, and Non-Striving with Rishikesh Tirumalai
    Mar 31 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver welcomes leadership coach and experience designer Rishikesh Tirumalai to discuss how "disruption" can mean returning to harmony with natural cycles, the body, and authenticity. Rishi shares his path from tech and solo travel to teaching and coaching, including how getting sober and working with a coach changed his trajectory, and reflects on being a young Indian man in a coaching world that often undervalues asking for help. They explore leaders finding integrity and fun in their roles, the courage of slowing down amid urgency culture, and the relationship between authenticity and activism in a colonizing power. Rishi also speaks about grieving his father's death, discovering inner stability, seeking agenda-free connection, and holding a seasonal intention of non-striving while listening for when action is needed.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    01:17 Rishi's Coaching Journey

    01:48 Panama and Leaving Tech

    03:58 Discovering Coaching and Sobriety

    05:16 Outlier in Coaching Culture

    07:18 Disruption and Family Roots

    09:09 Alignment With Natural Cycles

    11:46 Authenticity as Activism

    12:53 Leaders Finding Fun

    14:47 Holding Possibility Through Grief

    16:02 Dad's Passing and Adulting

    21:20 Expansion Without Striving

    24:12 Non Striving in a Harsh World

    28:29 Slowing Down as Disruption

    33:22 Support Without an Agenda

    36:03 North Star Fun and Care

    36:42 Closing and Call to Action

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    39 mins
  • Living Off Menu: Worthiness, Permission, and Small Experiments with Marie Smith | Deep Work Out Loud
    Mar 24 2026

    Host Julie Harris Oliver welcomes coach Marie Smith, founder of Golden Hour Coaching, who shares her path from teacher to personal trainer to life and health coach after hearing a clear spiritual prompting to become a life coach. Marie discusses the idea of "living off menu," inspired by Glennon Doyle's story about ordering beyond the menu, and connects it to agency, permission, and creating a life beyond inherited expectations. The conversation explores purpose as "being" rather than "doing," women's conditioning around worth tied to productivity, domestic labor and mental load, and learning to receive help. Marie offers practical steps to begin: journal desires, list the reasons you think you can't, challenge them as if advising a friend, choose one small experiment, and act. She shares where to find her and a Stress SOS guide via text.

    00:00 Welcome to Deep Work

    00:37 Meet Marie Smith

    01:33 Her Coaching Origin Story

    03:41 Hearing the Call

    04:34 Living Off Menu

    08:06 Permission and Agency

    09:05 Purpose as Being

    12:08 Worthy Just Because

    16:15 Moms Dads and Bedtime

    17:57 The Menu We Inherit

    19:04 Double Standards Trap

    20:04 My Life Is Mine

    20:53 Quiet the Inner Critic

    23:50 Small Off Menu Experiments

    26:58 Learning to Receive Help

    28:53 Asking for Help After Surgery

    30:59 Journal Your Next Step

    33:50 Find Marie and Wrap Up

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    37 mins