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EP003: Seeing the truth behind the performance - Better Life by The Growth Code

EP003: Seeing the truth behind the performance - Better Life by The Growth Code

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You've felt it before — the colleague who says all the right things but something's off. The date who seemed perfect until they weren't. The friend who triggers you in ways you can't explain.

What if you were picking up real signals all along, and just didn't have the language for them?

In this episode, we dig into Patrick King's Read People Like a Book — not as a manual for spotting liars or profiling strangers, but as a mirror. Because every technique for reading others turns out to be a technique for understanding yourself.

We cover the psychology King draws on — Maslow's hierarchy of needs, Jung's shadow, Ekman's microexpressions, Goleman's emotional intelligence — and we're honest about where the science holds up and where it doesn't.

We also ask the uncomfortable question: does learning to read people make you more empathetic, or just better at manipulation? And once you know what signals people are watching for, can you ever stop managing how you come across?

No verdicts from a single signal. No pseudoscience left unchallenged. Just two people comparing notes on what humans actually do when they think no one's paying attention.

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