What happens when years of caregiving, hypervigilance, grief, and responsibility finally catch up with a mother? In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Libby Hudson for an unfiltered conversation about profound autism, marriage, caregiver burnout, grief, and what it takes to survive when your family’s needs seem bigger than your capacity to carry them.

Libby and her husband Tyler Hudson have become respected voices in the profound autism community, but behind advocacy and awareness lies a deeply personal story. As their son Lyric entered adolescence, a devastating family loss triggered profound behavioral changes, escalating aggression, and years of living in a near-constant state of vigilance and fear.

Libby shares what it felt like to lose her father, watch her son struggle to process grief he could not communicate, and navigate the impossible reality of loving a child while simultaneously fearing what dysregulation might bring next.

Together, Sarah and Libby discuss:

* profound autism and adolescence
* caregiver burnout and nervous system exhaustion
* grief and autism
* marriage under chronic stress
* maternal hypervigilance
* supporting autistic adults
* emotional collapse and resilience
* the importance of asking for help
* finding purpose after survival mode

The conversation also explores something rarely discussed openly in autism spaces: the cost caregiving can have on a mother’s body, identity, relationships, and health. Libby shares how years of accumulated stress ultimately contributed to a stroke and the difficult changes her family had to make to survive.

This episode is for autism moms, caregivers, and families navigating profound autism, aggression, caregiver burnout, marriage stress, grief, and the emotional realities that often remain hidden behind advocacy.

In This Episode

00:00 – Living with constant hypervigilance and caregiving stress
02:00 – Reading nonverbal communication through behavior and body language
04:00 – The death of Lyric’s grandfather and profound grief
05:30 – When autism, adolescence, and loss collide
07:00 – Aggression, dysregulation, and fear inside the home
08:30 – The emotional toll of surviving crisis mode
10:00 – Why caregiving changed Libby’s health forever
11:30 – A stroke, burnout, and the body keeping score
13:00 – Marriage under pressure and redefining family roles
15:00 – Learning to ask for what you need
17:00 – Why flexibility matters in autism families
19:00 – Autism, relationships, and nervous system regulation
21:00 – The hidden emotional labor of autism motherhood
23:00 – Why support systems matter more than services alone
25:00 – Receiving an autism diagnosis 18 years ago
27:00 – Grief, acceptance, and adapting to reality
29:00 – The lessons profound autism has taught about life and love
31:00 – What makes Libby most proud as Lyric’s mother

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• (00:00:00) - Libby Hudson on The Inchstones Podcast
• (00:01:18) - What Does Your Day-to-Day With Lyric?
• (00:07:10) - On Working With an ASD Dad's Death
• (00:13:24) - "What I Need" From My Love Letter
• (00:15:06) - How to Get What You Need From Your Partner
• (00:23:18) - On the Importance of Relationships for Autism Mothers
• (00:25:37) - Autism Diagnosis: The Early Days

What happens when autism support moves beyond four walls and into nature? In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Dr. Dana Spett, founder of Pony Power Therapies, to explore autism, sensory regulation, equine-assisted services, and why connection, movement, and nature can create powerful opportunities for growth.

Dana’s journey began as a mother searching for support for her own daughter. What started with one horse and four riders has grown into Pony Power Therapies, a community-centered organization helping children and adults with disabilities connect with horses, farming, nature, and themselves.

Together, Sarah and Dana discuss autism parenting, sensory regulation, maternal intuition, nature-based learning, disability inclusion, and the importance of creating environments where autistic individuals can thrive without pressure to conform. Dana shares why traditional approaches are not always enough and how horses offer a unique opportunity for regulation, confidence, connection, and belonging.

The conversation explores:

* autism and sensory regulation
* equine-assisted services
* nature-based support for autistic children
* maternal intuition and advocacy
* disability inclusion and community belonging
* farming, purpose, and meaningful work
* autism and nervous system regulation
* creating supportive environments for neurodivergent individuals

Dana also shares how Pony Power supports families across the lifespan, from young children with autism to adults navigating life after age 21, when many formal support systems begin to disappear.

This episode is for autism moms, caregivers, educators, therapists, and anyone interested in nature-based approaches to autism support, sensory regulation, disability advocacy, and helping neurodivergent individuals build meaningful lives and connections.

In This Episode

00:00 – The mission behind Pony Power Therapies
01:00 – Dana’s journey as a social worker and autism mom
02:30 – Following maternal intuition instead of rushing to medication
04:00 – Why trusting your gut matters in autism parenting
05:30 – Equine-assisted services and empowering families
06:30 – How autistic children respond to horses and nature
08:00 – Sensory regulation through movement and rhythm
09:30 – Why horses provide unique nervous system support
11:00 – Nature, regulation, and the family system
13:00 – Beyond traditional talk therapy approaches
14:30 – The role of nature in mental health and autism support
16:00 – Nonverbal communication and connection beyond words
17:30 – Why leaving the house feels impossible for some families
19:00 – Supporting dysregulated autistic children without judgment
21:00 – Creating safe spaces for neurodivergent families
23:30 – The autism service cliff after age 21
25:00 – Farming, employment, and meaningful purpose for autistic adults
27:00 – Disability inclusion and reimagining community support

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More about Dr. Dana Spett, DSW

Dr. Dana Spett, DSW, an accomplished professional with a deep commitment to equine-
assisted services, nature, and social work is the Founder and Executive Director of Pony Power

Therapies, a nonprofit community-based center in New Jersey that connects children and adults
with disabilities or life challenges to the wonders of horses, farming and nature. Dana has
dedicated herself to creating an inclusive and transformative environment guided by nature.
Recognizing the power of nature to promote resilience and personal growth, Dana ensures that
Pony Power Therapies embodies...

• (00:00:00) - Inch Sentence Podcast: Dana Spett
• (00:00:55) - Pony Power Therapies: The Origins Story
• (00:05:18) - Pony Power: Autism and the Horse
• (00:11:46) - The Future of Social Work: Nature and Communication
• (00:18:37) - Autistic People on the Farm
• (00:20:30) - Pony Power on Autism and Farming

Many parents of non-speaking autistic children carry a quiet certainty: my child understands more than they can show. In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with occupational therapist, researcher, and Spellers Method co-creator Dr. Dana Johnson to explore whole body apraxia, motor planning, communication, and why behavior may not tell the whole story.

For years, families have been told to trust observable behaviors as the primary measure of understanding. Dr. Johnson challenges that assumption by explaining how motor planning differences can prevent autistic individuals from reliably demonstrating what they know, understand, or intend to communicate.

Together, Sarah and Dr. Johnson discuss whole body apraxia, non-speaking autism, presuming competence, sensory regulation, motor coaching, and the ways parents are often dismissed when their observations don’t align with traditional clinical models.

The conversation explores:

* whole body apraxia and autism
* non-speaking autism and communication
* motor planning challenges
* presuming competence
* autism and regulation
* maternal intuition and clinical observation
* supporting autistic children beyond behavior-based assumptions
* co-regulation and caregiver support

Dr. Johnson also shares how her work evolved after listening to parents whose experiences challenged what she had been taught professionally. Her message is both practical and hopeful: understanding motor differences can fundamentally change how families, therapists, and educators support autistic children.

This episode is for parents, caregivers, educators, therapists, and anyone interested in communication, autism advocacy, profound autism, and understanding what may exist beneath observable behavior.

In This Episode

00:00 – Maternal intuition, autism, and the limits of observation
02:00 – Why parents are often dismissed by professionals
04:15 – The story that led Dr. Johnson to rethink autism therapy
05:45 – What whole body apraxia actually means
07:15 – Understanding motor planning and communication barriers
08:00 – Why behavior does not always reflect understanding
09:30 – The backpack example: motor planning in daily life
11:00 – Typical childhood behavior versus apraxia
12:30 – Why presuming competence matters
14:00 – How professionals unintentionally limit autistic children
16:00 – Reading ability, communication, and hidden competence
17:00 – Regulation, sensory overwhelm, and motor control
19:00 – Why parents must regulate themselves first
21:00 – The invisible pressure placed on mothers
23:00 – Co-regulation and caregiver support
25:00 – Building confidence through small wins and inchstones
28:00 – Supporting parents, not just children
30:00 – The fear every autism parent carries about the future

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About Dr. Dana Johnson:

For more than 20 years, Dr. Johnson has worked alongside incredible families who have taught her what true resilience, patience, and hope look like. Through this work, she has learned that two things can be true at once: your child can struggle and make incredible progress at the same time.

Recognizing that too many professionals didn't know how to truly help these families, Dr. Johnson created her YouTube channel, “The Autism + Apraxia Doctor,” and expanded her reach across multiple platforms to educate professionals in the autism field. She specializes in helping individuals with complex autism, whole-body apraxia, and other neurodevelopmental disabilities develop intentional motor skills and improve their overall health.

Her mission is...

• (00:00:01) - Maternal intuition about autism on The Inchstones Podcast
• (00:01:41) - Speech therapists on autism
• (00:06:59) - What does that whole body apraxia actually look like?
• (00:14:28) - Caution about presuming competence in children with disabilities
• (00:15:36) - Motor and regulation in children's brains
• (00:16:55) - What It's Like to Be Maxed Out in Motherhood
• (00:25:38) - Dr. Johnson: Reflection is a life luxury

What does autistic adulthood actually look like? In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with autistic young adult Zach Ennis and his mother, Stacy Ennis, for a powerful conversation about independence, self-advocacy, friendship, community, and building a meaningful life with autism.

Too often, conversations about autism stop in childhood. Zach’s story offers something many families are searching for: a glimpse into adulthood, possibility, and the supports that help autistic adults thrive.

Zach shares what he enjoys most about his life, from community dinners, theater classes, movies, friendships, and independent living skills to advocating for adults with disabilities. He speaks candidly about communication, relationships, self-confidence, and his hopes for the future. His message is simple but powerful: work hard, be kind, support others, and believe in your potential.

Sarah and Stacy also explore the evolution of motherhood, autism advocacy, acceptance, and the unexpected gifts that come from raising and supporting a neurodivergent child into adulthood. Together they discuss communication beyond speech, independence, dignity, self-determination, and why autistic adults deserve opportunities to build full and meaningful lives.

This episode explores:

* autistic adulthood and independence
* autism advocacy and self-advocacy
* neurodivergent parenting across the lifespan
* community living and social connection
* autism and communication differences
* supporting autistic adults
* friendship, purpose, and belonging
* motherhood and lifelong caregiving

This conversation is a reminder that autism is not the end of a story. For many families, it is the beginning of a different story filled with growth, connection, community, and possibility.

In This Episode

00:00 – Introducing Zach and Stacey Ennis
01:15 – Zach shares what he enjoys most about life
02:10 – Building independence through community and daily living skills
03:00 – Friendship, communication, and social connection
03:45 – What Zach wishes people understood about him
05:00 – Accomplishments and learning independent living skills
06:10 – Feeling seen through autism self-advocacy
07:20 – Challenges that people may not notice
08:15 – Living your best life and future goals
09:00 – Zach’s message about autism and kindness
10:15 – What Zach has taught his mother about life
12:30 – Friendship, family, and growing into adulthood
15:15 – Daily connection between mother and son
16:20 – Acceptance, advocacy, and finding joy
18:00 – Communication beyond speech and traditional expectations
20:00 – Seeing the person beyond the diagnosis

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• (00:00:01) - Autism on Inchstones: Zach Ennis
• (00:00:54) - Living On An Independent Plan
• (00:03:03) - Zach's Life Story
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• (00:06:16) - Zachary on the Future
• (00:06:47) - Zachary Ennis on Autism
• (00:07:40) - What Has Zach Learned From His Life?
• (00:08:46) - The Reorientation of Having a Neurodiverse Child
• (00:09:51) - One Mother's Friendship With Her Autistic Son
• (00:12:31) - One Parent's Love Letter For His Mother
• (00:13:48) - Stacy's story of autism and the support of the community

An autism diagnosis changes more than a child’s future. It changes the people who love that child too. In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Bari Shore for an honest conversation about autism parenting, childhood apraxia, community, motherhood, and the unexpected personal growth that emerges from raising a neurodivergent child.

When Bari’s son Dean received his autism and apraxia diagnosis during the pandemic, she found herself searching for answers, support, and connection. Like many autism moms, she experienced relief, grief, uncertainty, and determination all at the same time. But perhaps the biggest surprise was not how much her son would grow. It was how much she would grow too.

Together, Sarah and Bari discuss autism parenting, caregiver stories, autism diagnosis journeys, motherhood identity shifts, advocacy, sibling relationships, and the importance of finding people who truly understand your family’s reality. They also explore why support does not always come from large groups, how community can be built one conversation at a time, and what happens when parents learn to celebrate inchstones instead of milestones.

This episode explores:

* autism parenting after diagnosis
* childhood apraxia and autism
* caregiver stories and community
* motherhood identity and personal growth
* sibling relationships and autism
* advocacy and communication
* autism diagnosis grief and acceptance
* parenting autistic children in the present moment

For parents navigating autism, apraxia, developmental delays, or the uncertainty that follows diagnosis, this conversation offers honesty, perspective, and hope.

In This Episode

00:00 – Finding friendship and community after diagnosis
02:00 – The long road to an autism and apraxia diagnosis
03:30 – Pandemic parenting and noticing developmental differences
04:30 – Relief, grief, and finally having answers
05:15 – Becoming “the autism mom” and identity shifts
06:00 – Why community became essential
06:45 – Cycles of research, burnout, and recovery
07:50 – Is autism parenting unfair?
08:45 – Celebrating inchstones instead of milestones
09:20 – Why the world should adapt to autistic children
10:30 – Learning to advocate for yourself as a parent
11:45 – Autism parenting and perspective
12:30 – Advice for parents receiving a new diagnosis
13:45 – Staying present instead of spiraling into the future
15:15 – Raising autistic boys and trusting your instincts
17:00 – Seeing the child beyond the diagnosis
18:20 – Becoming stronger through autism parenting
19:45 – Relationships, community, and what matters most

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Why do so many autism moms feel like they can never fully relax? In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Kerry Stevens for an honest conversation about caregiver burnout, autism motherhood, hypervigilance, and the invisible emotional load that comes with parenting autistic children.

Kerry shares the reality of raising her son Connor while balancing work, therapies, school meetings, financial pressure, and the constant responsibility that many special needs caregivers quietly carry every day. Together, Sarah and Kerry explore autism parenting, developmental delays, caregiver exhaustion, IEP advocacy, and the emotional experience of living in a near-constant state of fight-or-flight.

Their conversation touches on the grief that can follow an autism diagnosis, the pressure to help your child “catch up,” and the difficult process of accepting a path that looks different than the one you imagined. Kerry speaks candidly about leaving a job that could no longer accommodate the realities of caregiving and the emotional impact of being told her son’s needs were “too much.”

This episode explores:

* caregiver burnout and autism motherhood
* parenting autistic children while working
* hypervigilance and nervous system exhaustion
* autism diagnosis grief and acceptance
* developmental delays and communication challenges
* IEP advocacy and trusting parental intuition
* balancing therapies, finances, and family life
* learning to understand non-speaking communication

This episode is for autism moms, caregivers, and families navigating autism parenting, caregiver burnout, developmental delays, and the relentless emotional labor that often comes with raising autistic children.

In this episode:

00:00 – The invisible workload of autism motherhood
01:30 – Leaving a job because caregiving demands became too great
03:00 – Grieving the motherhood journey you imagined
05:15 – Living in constant fight-or-flight as an autism parent
07:00 – Why autism caregiving never truly shuts off
08:30 – Acceptance, therapy, and processing diagnosis grief
10:45 – Wanting your child to “catch up” after diagnosis
12:00 – Early intervention, ABA, and moving quickly after diagnosis
13:30 – Learning your child’s body language and communication patterns
15:00 – The daily realities of autism caregiving
16:45 – School routines, therapies, and medical support
18:00 – Home safety, elopement fears, and constant vigilance
19:45 – Reading emotional cues from non-speaking children
21:15 – Financial stress and caregiver burden
22:45 – IEP advocacy and the power of parental intuition
24:30 – Why autism moms deserve more support and understanding

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• (00:12:47) - How I Help My Child Get Ready For School
• (00:17:40) - Connor's caregiver and his school
• (00:22:33) - Sarah's story about her son on the Autism spectrum

What happens when autism parenting becomes physically, emotionally, and mentally consuming? In this episode of Inchstones, Sarah Kernion sits down with Alyssa Sierra for a raw conversation about profound autism, aggressive behaviors, caregiver exhaustion, sibling dynamics, and the emotional process of letting go of expectations.

Alyssa shares the story of her son Gabriel’s autism diagnosis during the pandemic and the moment motherhood shifted from “typical” parenting into a completely different reality. Together, Sarah and Alyssa discuss profound autism, parenting autistic children with severe behaviors, autism family support, caregiver burnout, and the invisible emotional labor autism moms carry every single day.

The conversation explores:

the grief of realizing your parenting path looks different
navigating aggressive and self-injurious autism behaviors
raising neurotypical siblings alongside autistic children
the emotional complexity of discipline in neurodivergent homes
why profound autism parenting feels different even within autism communities
finding joy and beauty inside developmental differences

Sarah and Alyssa also talk openly about survival mode, motherhood identity, sensory overwhelm, and why releasing rigid expectations can create more peace for both parents and children.

This episode is for autism moms, caregivers, and families navigating profound autism, developmental delays, severe behaviors, and the emotional complexity of raising neurodivergent children while trying to stay emotionally grounded themselves.

Alyssa is a special needs mom to her beautiful 7-year-old son and also a mom to a neurotypical 2-year-old. Navigating both sides of parenting has its unique challenges, but it has also made her stronger, more compassionate, and deeply committed to advocacy. She is passionate about supporting families raising children with disabilities and believes every special needs family deserves the highest level of support from their state and government. Parenting a child with special needs comes with enough challenges; families should not have to fight to have their voices heard. Alyssa believes that every family's story matters and that sharing those stories is one of the most powerful ways to create understanding, change, and a better future for children with disabilities.

In this episode:

00:00 – Profound autism and the reality of caregiving
02:05 – Receiving an autism diagnosis during the pandemic
03:10 – Tunnel vision after diagnosis and needing a plan
05:00 – The grief of leaving “typical motherhood” behind
06:45 – Explaining autism to friends and family
07:30 – Aggressive behaviors and profound autism realities
09:20 – Parenting autistic children and neurotypical siblings differently
11:00 – The emotional complexity of discipline in autism parenting
13:00 – Why autism parenting expands emotional perspective
14:15 – Building community and finding supportive people
16:00 – What autism moms say privately versus publicly
17:10 – Finding joy inside neurodivergent parenting
18:00 – Why autistic children experience wonder differently
19:10 – Letting go of expectations in autism parenting
21:00 – Learning to survive difficult behavioral seasons
22:00 – Why positivity matters in caregiver burnout recovery

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• (00:06:55) - One autism mom's experience with her typical daughter
• (00:12:10) - Gabriel's support system has been so open
• (00:15:44) - Letting go of expectations for your child
• (00:20:59) - Alyssa's Powerful Story

Autism parenting, caregiver stories, and neurodivergent parenting are at the heart of this episode of Inchstones as Sarah Kernion talks with Shannon Korza of Moms Talk Autism about grief, timelines, motherhood expectations, and parenting autistic children.

In this deeply honest episode of Inchstones, Sarah sits down with Shannon Korza for a raw conversation about autism diagnosis grief, the pressure mothers place on themselves after diagnosis, and what it means to let go of the timelines society teaches us to chase.

Shannon shares the emotional reality of receiving her daughter Gracie’s autism diagnosis after initially living in denial and fear that she would never be “enough” as a mother. Together, Sarah and Shannon explore autism parenting, caregiver burnout, sibling relationships, sensory differences, IEP goals, autism advocacy, and the deep grief that can surface when life no longer looks the way you imagined it would.

The conversation also dives into the hidden emotional labor autism moms carry, the pain of watching autistic children struggle socially, and the shift that happens when parents stop forcing neurotypical expectations onto neurodivergent children.

This episode is for autism moms, caregivers, and families navigating autism diagnosis journeys, parenting autistic children, disability advocacy, and the challenge of balancing hope with acceptance.

In this episode:

00:00 – Autism parenting and motherhood expectations
01:00 – Shannon’s reaction to her daughter’s autism diagnosis
02:30 – Grieving the fear of not being “enough” as a parent
03:45 – Parenting autistic children versus neurotypical siblings
05:00 – Why grief and brokenness carry so much shame for mothers
06:30 – Learning to sit with autism grief instead of avoiding it
07:00 – The Christmas moment that changed Shannon’s perspective forever
09:10 – Why autism parenting can still feel unfair years later
10:00 – Autism is not a “superpower” conversation
11:15 – Watching autistic children struggle socially
13:40 – Sibling relationships and protecting autistic sisters
16:00 – The emotional growth autism parenting can create
18:00 – Sensory meltdowns and judgment from strangers
19:00 – Celebrating tiny wins in autism parenting
21:00 – Advice for parents receiving a new autism diagnosis
22:00 – Letting go of developmental timelines and comparison
24:00 – Creating IEP goals that actually fit your child and family

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