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Marriage iQ

Marriage iQ

By: Dr. Heidi Hastings and Dr. Scott Hastings
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Most couples were never taught how to build a great marriage. They were just told to work at it. But what actually works? Marriage IQ is a relationship podcast hosted by marriage and sex researcher Dr. Heidi Hastings and physician Dr. Scott Hastings. Each episode blends relationship science, real stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication in marriage, deepen intimacy, rebuild trust, and resolve conflict. If you want a stronger, more connected marriage, this podcast is for you. New episodes every Tuesday.495868 Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Episode 132 - 6 Lessons From 30 Years of Marriage That Actually Work
    May 19 2026

    Dr. Heidi and Scott Hastings celebrate 30 years of marriage by sharing the biggest lessons they’ve learned along the way—the good, the hard, and the surprisingly fun.

    From laughter and intimacy to conflict, agency, and learning to turn toward each other instead of away, this episode is an honest conversation about what actually helps a marriage grow stronger over time. They open up about difficult seasons, major life transitions, parenting differences, rebuilding through stress, and the intentional choices that helped their relationship not just survive, but deepen.

    You’ll hear:
    Why laughter matters more than most couples realize
    How intimacy can reconnect a struggling relationship
    Why your differences can become relationship superpowers
    The importance of agency, support, and shared growth
    How “turning toward” each other changes everything
    Whether you’ve been married 30 days or 30 years, this episode will encourage you to create a relationship that keeps getting better with time.SOCIAL MEDIA

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    26 mins
  • Episode 131 - Sex, Faith, and Desire: With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
    May 12 2026

    Why sex feels so confusing in marriage isn’t just about desire—it’s about identity, fear, and what’s happening beneath the surface.


    In this episode, Dr. Heidi Hastings sits down with renowned sex therapist Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to unpack why intimacy can feel so complicated, especially for those navigating both faith and sexuality.

    Together, they explore how marriage and sex reveal deeper truths about who we are and how we relate to ourselves. You’ll learn why conflict, desire differences, and even frustration can be opportunities for growth. I

    f you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure in this area, this conversation will help you see it in a completely new way.

    🔗Connect With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife : finlayson-fife.com/
    👉Podcast : Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

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    44 mins
  • Episode 130 - The “Pause” That is Killing Your Marriage
    May 5 2026

    Most marriages don’t fall apart—they slowly drift.


    In this episode, Drs. Heidi and Scott Hastings sit down with Dr. Lee Baucom, marriage and family therapist, to talk about why that happens—and how to turn it around.


    We get into how couples unintentionally “pause” their relationship, why that distance builds over time, and what you can start doing right now to reconnect.


    If you’ve ever felt like you’re living with your spouse more as roommates than actually connecting with them, this one’s for you.


    Give it a listen and start finding your way back to each other


    🔗Connect With Dr. Lee H. Baucom : leebaucom.com

    👉Podcast : The Save The Marriage Podcast


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    49 mins
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