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That's Strike 3 — Episode 2 "Everyone Saw It But Me"

In this episode, we're diving into the mental side of umpiring — specifically, what happens in your head after everything goes sideways on the field.

John walks through his first varsity ejection: a close game, a bang-bang play at the plate, and a head coach who wasn't going home quietly. What came next wasn't just about whether the call was right — it was about whether John could hold it together for one more inning when the whole stadium was against him.

This episode covers three things every umpire needs in their back pocket:

1. File it, don't fight it — why trying to forget a bad moment makes it worse, and what to do instead
2. Reset your body — the physical anchor that brings you back to the present pitch
3. Trust your preparation — why a coach's anger only lands if you let it, and how your work protects you

Whether you're calling your first varsity game or your five hundredth, the reset is a skill — and it's one worth training.

Episode Summary An honest look at the mental and emotional challenges every umpire faces — especially when starting out. This episode sets the tone for the podcast by addressing the real human side of umpiring that nobody talks about.

Key Topics Covered

• Why the mental side of umpiring catches most people off guard
• Nerves — what they mean and how to work with them
• The weight of a bad call and why carrying it hurts your next play
• The loneliness of being the sole decision maker on the field
• Why being part of an association like EBUA makes a difference

Key Takeaways

• Nerves don't mean you're in the wrong place — they mean you care
• A pregame routine is one of the best tools for managing anxiety
• The best umpires have a short memory — reset and move on
• You don't have to figure this job out alone

Life Behind Home Plate – Episode: Building Better Relationships with Players and Coaches

As umpires, we’re more than just rule enforcers—we’re relationship managers. In this episode, I’m sharing the keys to building trust, respect, and connection with the people on the field who challenge us the most: players and coaches.

From clear communication to consistent calls, I’ll break down the small things that make a big difference. Whether you’re a seasoned blue or just getting started, these insights will help you manage the game and the relationships that come with it.

👂 Listen now and learn how to:

✅ Build mutual respect

✅ Handle conflict with confidence

✅ Stay approachable while maintaining authority

Because sometimes, the most important call you make isn’t with your voice—it’s with how you carry yourself.

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