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The Sacred We

The Sacred We

By: Michael Elliott and Courtney Wren
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 A conscious relationship podcast for couples and individuals exploring intimacy, somatic healing, sacred love, and conscious parenting. Hosted by Somatic Therapist & Mystic, Courtney Wren and Relationship Coach, Mike Elliott, Together blends real-life vulnerability with expert tools for growth, connection, and devotion. Deepen trust, navigate parenting, and experience the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.Michael Elliott and Courtney Wren Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Mapping Your Relational Imprint: How to Heal Relationship Patterns

    Mapping Your Relational Imprint: How to Heal Relationship Patterns
    May 7 2026
    Curious about Mapping your Imprinting with Courtney?If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call →Tune-in Call with CourtneyWhat if the relationship patterns you keep repeating aren't about the person you're with — but about what's already written in your body, your DNA, and your ancestral field?In this solo episode, somatic therapist and attachment specialist Courtney Wren introduces one of the most powerful frameworks she knows: relational imprinting. It's the hidden architecture of your love life — shaped by your ancestors, your conception, your time in the womb, your birth, and the first three years of your life. Before you had any conscious memory. Before you could even speak.Courtney opens with her own story: a deep bond with her father that ruptured when she turned three, because of trauma he was carrying from generations before. She didn't understand it as a child — but she lived it for decades. In every long-term relationship, around year three, the same pattern would unfold. Men would pull away. The little girl would get angry, then go silent. Then the relationship would end. Until she and Mike named it, worked with it as allies, and broke the cycle.In this episode:What an imprint is — and how 97% of relational patterns are rooted before conscious memory beginsWhy wanting to "do it different" will never be enough — the patterns are too alive in the bodyThe difference between fate (living out the pattern) and destiny (consciously working with the material)Why intimate partnership mirrors your imprint like nothing else — and why personal work alone has limitsThe story of Cedar and how generational adoption trauma played out through Mike's young sonWhen two imprints "ping" — and why this is where most couples get permanently stuckA client whose relationship with her teenage son transformed after clearing imprinting from her pregnancyThis is deep, real, and rooted in decades of somatic and constellation work. It will land in your mind, your body, and your cells.Courtney's Mapping Your Imprints Private Container is now open — only 3 spots remaining. 3 sessions2 months of WhatsApp supportCourtney's full attention on your imprintingBook a free 20-minute tuning-in call via the link in the show notes →Tune-in Call with CourtneyAn upcoming Mapping Your Imprints Masterclass is also on the horizon — get on Courtney's mailing list so you don't miss it. Link in show notesWe love you. Let this land.👉Sign up Courtney’s Masterclass: https://www.courtneywren.com/mapping-your-relational-imprint-sales-page👉Sign up for our couples list HERE: https://www.sacredrelating.com/thesacredwe👉 Learn more here:⁠ https://www.sacredrelating.com/⭐💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 → ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/sacred-relating-couples⁠Work with Mike → ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching⁠Work with Courtney → ⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/rebirth⁠📺Subscribe to our YouTube Channel → ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thetogetherpodcast⁠🏹Join the Initiated Man Waitlist→ ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/initiated-man-waitlist⁠💎 Join the Waitlist for The Holy Mama Membership →⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/holymamawaitlist⁠Donation link 👇🙏🏼❤️🌏⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VWHABJWZ749X4⁠⁠Email:⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠⁠www.sacredrelating.com⁠⁠www.courtneywren.com⁠Instagram:@MikeElliott.Relating@courtneywren.sacredrelating**MINDFULMEDS MUSHROOM PRODUCTS: **⁠https://mindfulmeds.io/⁠Promo Code: TOGETHERTHE SKIN DEEP CARDS: ⁠⁠https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/all⁠⁠Promo Code: Together15
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    42 mins
  • Reclaiming the Mother Village: From Isolation to Support

    Reclaiming the Mother Village: From Isolation to Support
    Apr 16 2026
    If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Schedule HereYou long for it. You might not even have words for it yet. But something in your body knows — motherhood was never meant to be done alone.In this intimate solo episode, Courtney sits down with her closest mama-sister, Skaia Warren — Oracle, village weaver, and mother to Aluna — for an honest, soul-nourishing conversation about what it actually takes to reclaim the mother village in modern life. Not the curated, cleaned-up version of connection. The real thing. The messy, inconvenient, deeply healing thing.This is the Sacred We in sisterhood and motherhood — and it's one of the most important conversations we've ever had.In This Episode:Why so many mothers are isolated — and the nervous system reason it's so hard to reach outThe difference between curated connection and true village (and why only one actually fills you up)What Skaia did when her daughter Aluna cried out from the womb: "Mama, where's my village?"How Courtney and Skaia built deep sisterhood in the trenches — not when everything was perfectThe power of being witnessed in motherhood, even in the moments you're not proud ofWhy weaving village is inconvenient — and why that's exactly the pointThe sticky notes dynamic between children: what kids' relationship patterns reveal about oursWhat "care" (not caretaking) really means in mama sisterhood5 actionable things you can do right now to start building your village📚 Resources:📬 Sign up for Courtney's mailing list — upcoming webinars and short courses on motherhood, attachment & nervous system — ⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/rebirth⁠💑 Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation — https://www.sacredrelating.com/thesacredweConnect with Skaia’s at her Instagram channel — https://www.instagram.com/skaiaschannel?igsh=c2xxZmRhMnpnMWZs*If this episode landed in your heart, share it with a mama in your life who needs to hear it. And leave us a 5-star review — it helps us reach the mothers who are ready for this. 💛💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 → ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/sacred-relating-couples⁠Work with Mike → ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching⁠📺Subscribe to our YouTube Channel → ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thetogetherpodcast⁠🏹Join the Initiated Man Waitlist→ ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/initiated-man-waitlist⁠💎 Join the Waitlist for The Holy Mama Membership →⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/holymamawaitlist⁠Donation link 👇🙏🏼❤️🌏⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VWHABJWZ749X4⁠⁠Email:⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠⁠www.sacredrelaring.com⁠⁠www.courtneywren.com⁠Instagram:@MikeElliott.Relating@courtneywren.sacredrelating**MINDFULMEDS MUSHROOM PRODUCTS: **⁠https://mindfulmeds.io/⁠Promo Code: TOGETHERTHE SKIN DEEP CARDS: ⁠⁠https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/all⁠⁠Promo Code: Together15
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    46 mins
  • From Then to Now: A Real Couple's Journey Through Grief, Growth & Sacred Love

    From Then to Now: A Real Couple's Journey Through Grief, Growth & Sacred Love
    Apr 9 2026
    Curious about Evolutionary Relationship — The Initiation?If something's pulling you toward this program, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Schedule HereWhat does it actually look like to go from stuck, disconnected, and in the deepest grief of your life — to a love that radiates so strongly, people stop you on the street?In this deeply moving episode, Mike and Courtney are joined by Jen and Eli — a real couple they've worked with closely over several years — to share the full arc of their relational journey. From anxiety-avoidance cycles and the devastating loss of their son, to a wedding that moved their community to tears and a marriage now rooted in conscious, sacred love.This is what the work actually looks like. This is the evidence.In This Episode:How Jen and Eli went from a "power couple" surface image to hitting the painful patterns underneathLosing their son to an overdose — and how grief became the doorway to a deeper loveWhy Eli resisted the work at first (and the moment everything changed)The "sticky notes" exercise that helped them finally see each other clearlyWhat the Sacred We actually feels like in daily life — Eli's simple, powerful answerHow Jen learned to regulate her own fire instead of expecting Eli to walk into itThe moment the soul of the relationship clicked — and changed their marriage foreverWhy community and mentorship made the difference where therapy alone couldn'tHow their transformation is now radiating into their son's life and their entire communityResources:💑 Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation —https://www.sacredrelating.com/together-community ⭐📅 Book a free call with Mike or Courtney → Schedule HereIf Jen and Eli's story moved you, please leave us a 5-star review and share this episode with a couple you love. This is what's possible. 💛💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 → ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/sacred-relating-couples⁠Work with Mike → ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching⁠Work with Courtney → ⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/rebirth⁠📺Subscribe to our YouTube Channel → ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thetogetherpodcast⁠🏹Join the Initiated Man Waitlist→ ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/initiated-man-waitlist⁠💎 Join the Waitlist for The Holy Mama Membership →⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/holymamawaitlist⁠Donation link 👇🙏🏼❤️🌏⁠⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VWHABJWZ749X4⁠⁠Email:⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠⁠www.sacredrelating.com⁠⁠www.courtneywren.com⁠Instagram:@MikeElliott.Relating@courtneywren.sacredrelating**MINDFULMEDS MUSHROOM PRODUCTS: **⁠https://mindfulmeds.io/⁠Promo Code: TOGETHERTHE SKIN DEEP CARDS: ⁠⁠https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/all⁠⁠Promo Code: Together15
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    1 hr and 14 mins
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